‘When one is in love, one
always begins by deceiving one’s self and one always ends by deceiving others.
That is what the world calls a romance.’
From The Picture of Dorian
Gray by Oscar Wilde
Romanza, the latest
fragrance from the talented and dashing Masque Milano boys Alessandro Brun and
Riccardo Tedeschi is a glorious, swooning descent into exquisite malignancy.
Ovid’s Metamorphoses tells us the tale of a beautiful hunter
called Narcissus, obsessively loved by the wood nymph Echo who followed the boy
through the mountains. Realising he was being followed shouted…’who’s there?’..
‘Who’s there? shy Echo
shouted back. When she revealed herself, she was spurned and devastated, fading
away to just her voice… an echo. Nemesis, the goddess of revenge lured the
arrogant youth to pool of still mirrored water where he fell in love with his
own reflection. When he finally realised his aching love would not be
reciprocated, he died and was transformed into the narcotic, waxen bloom that
so many of us love.
| The doomed Narcissus.. |
This myth of obsessive all consuming love is a powerful concept.
It is a psychiatric disorder indicated by differing degrees of severity. True narcissists
are terrifying, fabulously charming and intoxicating but brutally cold and
capable of astonishing emotional cruelty. Still, somehow we find them
magnificent, alluring and sexually compelling. Like blue glittering fire, we
feel the need to stand close, despite the fact we may be consumed. They have
hypnotic vortex.








